Evince what the world evades.

A nineteen year old yearning to expose to myself what reality thrives to hide from me.

An International Studies student from De La Salle University-Manila passionate enough to explore what my potential in the real worl.

A proud Filipino curious to expand my horizons and go beyond the borders holding me back.

An Ilongga filled with compassion, faith, and love in everything that comes my way.

Blogging is who I am, it is a part of me and my life that I will never be able to let go. I take this as an experience in life and appreciating reality as much as fairytales and fantasy.

I choose to strip myself of all these barriers and let it all out her without holding back any bone in me.

I will evince what the world evades from now on, and will continue to do so for the rest of my existence.

"Everyone's perfect in unusual ways"- Demi Lovato
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Dropped it fo real.

          I finally made a decision, and already did it today. I dropped the class that was bothering me so much. I figured, if it’s bothering me so much, might as well not take it now. I feel like I’m not ready to take this class yet, nor am I in a hurry to graduate. It’s fine with my family, so I took this way and all the rest of the pieces will fall together in the future.

          I feel so much more relieved and more confident about this term. I no longer have anything to stress so much about. I can finally sleep and eat well!! I’m about to eat my first meal of the day, dinner! Never doing this again! Putting myself through so much agony. Haha

“Be the change you want to see in the world.”- Mahatma Gandhi

A Criticism on T3 Magazine

I wanted to share a paper I did for my Genders class. It’s one of my favorite ones to date and a great reflection of what I believe in as of the moment. I hope people can be enlightened by this.

“German women, German loyalty, German wine and German song, Shall retain in the world, Their old lovely ring, To inspire us to noble deeds, Our whole life long. German women, German loyalty, German wine and German song.”

       Women, loyalty, wine, and song. What is it about these four that led to them being in one “category” under the second stanza of Germany’s national anthem? I turn to Adams and Ware’s “Sexism and the English Language: The Linguistic Implications of Being A Woman” where they discussed the trivialization of women in society (Adams & Ware, 1979). In the lyrics above, it depicts the reality of how women are seen. Why would they be in the same stanza as objects which are desired for, but not separated and respected as women should be?

       As Adams and Ware mentioned in their paper, women are treated as entertainment, as something as lovely as wine and song that inspires “us”, or German men only. They are obviously seen as frivolous, inconsequential (Adams & Ware, 1979). Germany’s national anthem also neglects women throughout the song by using terms such as brotherhood, fatherland, and brothers, another issue tackled by both Adams and Ware to be oppressive to women, ignoring their worth.

       I, for one, would expect that things would be different nowadays. Greater equality among men and women in society should already be rampant. But it seems the opposite is true. There still seems to be a dominance of men over women, visible in our history, in national anthems, and in the most powerful phenomenon today, the media.

       Women continue to be portrayed as impotent against men. Women are constantly being objectified by society. Women are perceived to be equal to the disabled, the young, and the elderly. Women are blamed for what society constructs them to be.

       In this critique, I delve into the magazine, T3, and provide a brief background of this magazine, discuss the negative aspects of this magazine, its implications on society, offer suggestions on what should be done, and conclude my paper. I aim to enlighten readers on how the issue of degrading women through media affects society today and continues on to the future.

T3 Magazine

       T3 magazine is a technology magazine that showcases all the latest gadgets world-wide, including upcoming gizmos as well. According to Wikipedia, T3 is short for Tomorrow’s Technology Today, but isn’t used in any of its publications including its website. T3 magazine was first published and sold in September 1996 and is originally from the UK and then adapted by the Philippines with publishing T3 Magazines Philippines. Although the publication started as a magazine for people to refer to for technology information, it gradually became a fanzine for tech-savvy nerds who also happen to be “sexually repressed men” as termed on Wikipedia. (T3 Magazine, 2011)

       In the latest issue of T3 Magazine, June 2011, it has the A’s-Z’s of technology today. All the details and news about the latest widgets are revealed in this glossy handbook. Any gadget that deals with music, television, communication, and transportation are laid out in T3. It compares the hot devices of today such as that of Apple and Android, whether you should purchase the new iPad 2 or the Android. All the information you need to know about all the technologies in the world are present in the T3 Magazines, plus a little more.

Negative Aspects

       Using the above description of T3 Magazine makes it appear as though there may be nothing wrong with this innocent-looking magazine. But incase you were wondering what got my attention when I first saw it, you’d realize the purpose of this paper and where I am going with my point. The cover of the issues I have encountered of this magazine in my entire life have all had women in swimsuits and revealing attires holding phones or laptops in a sensual and provocative way. Flipping through the latest issue of the magazine is a six-page spread entitled “Be a King for a Day” with a blonde and sexy model posing with cars, in a helicopter, on a motorcycle, and on a yacht. Most of the pictures, might I add, depict her modeling as though she is in the middle of an orgasm, seducing men to come take a ride with her. This epitomizes how men are perceived. They become kings if and when they are surrounded by sexy model-like women and the latest gadgets. Not only are they filthy rich, affording all the gadgets they desire, but they are also desired in return by blonde bombshells just like the cover girl who is in a black blazer with a black one-piece corset underneath.

       Looking at Germany’s national anthem and relating that issue with this, we can see a specific pattern wherein women seem to fall into the category of an object which brings pleasure and entertainment to men. And if this could not be considered as a plausible case in point for the T3 Magazines, sexy female models are obviously being used to attract men into buying their magazines whether or not they may want it for Tomorrow’s Technology Today. Yes, it’s a realist way of marketing, but idealistically, women would like to be seen differently already and portrayed a different character in society.

Implications on Society

       With a magazine internationally-known and distributed, everyone has access to this. Not only that, but, it is part of popular culture. As Bell Hooks discusses, popular culture is where people learn the most about anything and everything. We are surround by media, by popular culture. In today’s day and age, it dictates our way of thinking, our behavior, and our lifestyles. It has shaped into becoming the norm of society.

       This frightens me of what women are becoming today. Just by the cover of T3 Magazine, we see that women are portrayed as equal to gadgets, nothing more and nothing less. What a shame it is to be in the midst of this occurrence. Day in, day out, men are feeling more powerful with the help of media. This is manifested by magazines similar to T3. Women are shut down because they are presumed to be incapable as a man, weaker than a man, less knowledgeable than a man, and more gullible than a man.

       “The habit of talking becomes the habit of thinking” as discussed in class. Adams and Ware elucidated in their paper that these symbols of degrading women leave greater harm towards society than we think. This harm endangers not only today’s generation, but every generation to come. These representations brought about by pop culture, by the media reflect the values, attitudes, and reinforces them (Adams & Ware, 1979).

       Magazines such as T3 unconsciously and gradually leave an imprint in the minds of readers that women are nothing more than the phones and cars we have. Their value is needed solely for satisfaction and enjoyment. They are not any more powerful than the men who read these materials. Men, in turn, treat women this way in public. Disrespecting while harassing women as they walk down the street or stroll around a mall. Because of these magazines, all men see are these beings hungry for sex, for men, best for a night of fun, then left behind like they’re last month’s issue of T3.

Suggestions

       If T3 magazine wanted to get the attention of readers, why not choose a man and a woman to be the cover? Why not use male models throughout the magazine instead of one female model? If the magazine wanted something provocative, use a man and a woman modeling as though they’re having sex in a six-page spread as well! Better yet, use all different types of models that don’t necessarily have to be in revealing clothes for every single shot.

       T3 Magazine shouldn’t take the shallow route towards pop culture. This magazine offers the best amount of information needed for technology and there are better ways of advertising than using women as their sex symbols who are portrayed equivalent to the gadgets they promote.

       Society does not have to be constructed in such a way. It should be conscious of what it is putting out in the media. It is possible for people to become more innovative and create ways to both widen their market yet conform with what society should and should not be learning.

       As Hooks stated in her paper, “mass media is being used… to get women out of feminism and back into some patriarchal mode of thinking”. She also goes on to say that popular culture impacts the everyday lives of people. (Hooks, 1994)

       Media should be used in a different way, to inform and to enlighten people. It is supposed to bring society together, not undermine fifty percent of the Earth’s population. T3 Magazine is an informative magazine which is highly beneficial to people, but its representation of women is a subtle form of oppression that influences men to look at women as sex slaves and women to look down upon themselves. Once a greater portion of society becomes aware of this issue, changes can fall to place and false images of women will be eradicated completely in the future.

Conclusion

       Similar to what is being portrayed in Germany’s national anthem, T3 Magazine objectifies women as being equivalent to any form of entertainment and pleasure. As T3 has become a internationally-known magazine which offers the latest technologies with all the information a tech-savvy nerd must be aware of, it also appeals to sexually-deprived men with its provocative photos of models alongside the various gadgets and gizmos.

       This depiction degrade the image of women among men and among women themselves portraying them as frivolous beings and trivial compared to men. This form of media and pop culture molds the way of thinking and lifestyles of society as this is one of the most powerful ways of educating people. “The habit of talking becomes the habit of thinking” and if this is continued, magazines similar to T3 can further deepen the gap between men and women.

       T3 Magazine should find a way to both inform and enlighten their readers with its main purpose, offering Tomorrow’s Technology Today, while conforming to the needs of both men and women. Neither should be snubbed nor disrespected. Through this, everyone becomes aware of the issue and creates a new sense of identity whether a woman or a man in society.

Bibliography

Adams, K. L., & Ware, N. C. (1979). Sexism and the English Language: The Linguistic Implications of Being a Woman. In J. Freeman, Women: A Feminist Perspective (pp. 487-504). Palo Alto: Mayfield Publishing Co.

Hooks, B. (1994). Outlaw Culture: Resisting Representations. New York: Routledge.

T3 Magazine. (2011, April 18). Retrieved May 14, 2011, from Wikipedia: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/T3_%28magazine%29

T3 Staff. (2011, June). T3 Magazine.

My horrible eye sight

I’ve been complaining for the past year of how horrible my eyesight has gotten and it bothers me extremely. I love my glasses and wearing them, but I hate that I have to wear all the time or else I look like some fool waving at a tree thinking it was my friend, let alone a human being. Something, spare me the embarrassment please.

Lo and behold, when I opened yahoo earlier, there was an article on how to improve your eyesight! I will definitely practice these tips and hopefully get my eyesight back!

Here it is: http://health.yahoo.net/experts/drmao/4-ways-to-improve-your-eyesight

Everyone’s perfect in unusual ways.- Demi Lovato

My theology class.

          I had my first official class in TREDTRI, it’s a religion class on reading the bible, and we already started going through certain parts of the bible. A little background on my beliefs, I am a spiritual person. I believe in God, in his power, and pray often. But I don’t agree with a lot of the extreme beliefs and values practiced, especially in the Philippines. Practices such as processions, going against politics, and exorcism. I don’t know why, but there are just a few specific areas that I disagree on while the rest seem acceptable under my terms, such as praying the rosary, mass, the belief that everything happens for a reason as God has his plan for us.

          I believe that my generation has grown up most likely in the same way. It’s evident that we are in a society that is extremely open-minded to many issues that surface every now and then, a good sign, and a big leap from 50 years ago. What I don’t understand is how the bible sometimes contradicts its own self. Maybe my lack of knowledge on the bible and my religion is partly to blame, but based on what I have been learning in school and what I already know, I get aggravated towards some values Catholicism uphold.

          First is, the end of the world. So many people, pastors, predict the end of the world, but fail every single time. I highly rely on scientific evidence when it comes to this one because I honestly see the Lord as compassionate, period. Yes, the bible reiterates the possibility, narrates stories that have occurred back then, but then, I just don’t see it that way. Why would he let everyone suffer when not everyone is to blame. It won’t hurt to believe in the dates predicted, like October 21, 2011, but I won’t let it stop me from living, like that mother who killed her children.

          Second, LGBTs. Isn’t it not accepted in the bible? We’re either female or male? But that’s not what is obvious in the world today. There are asexuals and intersexuals. From what I know, the bible doesn’t say anything about that. And gender? Doesn’t the church not accept any other gender but heterosexuals? But isn’t God supposed to love us all no matter what? Weren’t we all made in his own image and likeness? What possibly explains that in the bible? We’re supposed to accept them in society, but then the church sometimes denies them of their existence.

          Third, race, religion, and other ethnicities. There have been instances when the Catholic church did not accept people outside of their color and beliefs. Such as one which was cited during my TREDTRI class, when Mahatma Gandhi was reading the bible one point in his life and decided to visit a Christian church, but was denied from entering because he was of color. And I thought we praised otherwise as followers of God? Equal in His eyes? I completely agree in what he said, “I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ.”

          Fourth, patriarchal system in the church. Now, this is what got my blood boiling earlier in class. I had no idea there was a section in the bible that describes the ideal portrait of a wife in the last chapter of Proverbs. I guess in a way, I had nothing unpleasant to say about this, but then when my professor told us that there wasn’t any existence of an ideal portrait of a husband in the bible I thought, so women have to follow these ‘qualifications’ of being a wife like applying a job, as if their husbands are their bosses, while men on the other hand don’t have to worry of possessing specific characteristics? Most might claim that its because Jesus, Joseph, etc. are examples and manifestations of this, but if the bible explains an ideal wife, shouldn’t is explain an ideal husband? And if they chose to use real characters as examples for men, shouldn’t they have done the same with the women and solely relied on that?

          Finally, how Catholic authorities force down their beliefs down the throats of society. This speaks for itself. I loathe this quality of the church and I believe this should be discontinued in our world because it is a hindrance to development and progress in the world, be it economically, politically, or socially.

          I do not go against my being a Catholic, I abide by it as far as my beliefs go. Beyond that, I refuse to accept anything else. I hope I am not the only one who sees this, because change is definitely needed now.

Be the change you want to see in the world.”- Mahatma Gandhi

And the final decision is…

I know it may be too early to make a final decision as of now, but all the signs are pointing to me taking the subject and getting it over with. Whether I fail or not, at least I learn a lot from this subject. I may get embarrassed and humiliated every Tuesdays and Fridays, but I need to remember that I’ll get a lot out of this which will ultimately help me for my thesis. And I’m not in this battle alone! I’ve got my two thesis-mates, Timmy and H, so with them around, everything’s gonna be alright.

I need more faith in the Lord that I’ll be able to conquer my fear and succeed in this class. So here’s to the next 14 weeks of hell!

Everyone’s perfect in unusual ways.- Demi Lovato

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